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Re: Status update
From: Patrick <>
To: Desiree Capuano <>
Date: Tue, Jun 16 2015 1:18:23 pm
Hello, Desiree.

You seem to have, once again, completely missed the point.  It is not to 
say how good of a parent I am because I have been teaching G***** 
things - quite to the contrary, it is my opinion I have fallen very 
short of my own, personal expectations of what a parent is, and what a 
parent has a duty to do.  I do what I do out of a sense of obligation, 
duty, and decency; not because I seek praise.

The point of the message was focused on you (not me).  And how 
ridiculous it is that you would have the audacity to claim to be an 
excellent parent, having done nothing over the past two and a half 
years, to contribute to the development of your children.

Interestingly, you force them to do things like travel to meet your 
distant family members - something G***** has no interest in and which 
will not benefit him in any way at all, yet you put no effort into 
teaching him to be fiscally responsible or how to prepare very basic 
meals for himself.  You have truly curious priorities.


On 06/15/2015 08:57 AM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> I understand that you feel the need to document every milestone of 
> parental responsibility to prove you do anything beyond supplying a 14 
> with way too much free money.  Do you want a "good boy"?  Well...good 
> boy Richard.  I'm so glad that you taught your son some things.  Way 
> to go.
> On Saturday, June 13, 2015, Patrick  > wrote:
>     What?  No comeback?  Could it be that you've finally accepted that
>     you really are a terrible parent and an overall bad person?
>     Patrick
>     On 06/13/2015 09:46 AM, Patrick wrote:
>         Hello, Desiree.
>         So, G*****'s been here about 2 weeks now.  And in that time:
>         - I've been teaching him to cook simple meals on his own -
>         fried noodels with fresh vegetables, scrambled eggs, pancakes,
>         etc.
>         - he can ride his bicycle on his own;
>         - we got him a violin and he's been learning/practicing that.
>         I've put videos of him doing each of those things on his
>         Facebook page.
>         I don't understand how it is that he's been with you 2 and a
>         half years and you've not taught him anything...yet you still
>         try to convince yourself that you're a good parent.  How can
>         you be a good parent when you put spending time with, and
>         making major life decisions based on being close to your
>         boyfriend of the moment, before raising your children?
>         Patrick