I did not say "immediately after". I said "after". "After" means ANY
TIME after the given point. Going to the hospital immediately after the
accident would not have been a "choice" on your part. Blue Cross would
have required it. And if you refused then they would not have covered
any complications resulting from the accident. That is how insurance works.
On 06/12/2015 12:10 PM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> Richard - you don't seem to understand, I never went to the hospital
> following the car accident. I should have, yes, but I didn't. There
> were no x-Rays after the accident. There was no hospital visit until
> the bleeding.
> On Friday, June 12, 2015, Patrick > wrote:
> Your accounting of the "facts" do not stand up to scrutiny. Please
> see my comments, inline.
> On 06/12/2015 11:34 AM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
>> Richard that is not what happened at all. Your account of the
>> details of that day are grossly inaccurate. I didn't lock myself
>> in the bathroom, I was not in there for "some amount of time",
>> and I told you when you asked me that I absolutely did not
>> inflict any harm on myself.
>> The accident ripped the placenta - this was verified by the
>> doctor when I had Sage as I was not allowed to go into labor
>> or have contractions.
> Are you suggesting that the ultrasounds and x-rays you received
> after the accident, but before the UCLA visit, were unable to
> detect any abnormalities, and your own gynecologist was unable to
> detect any problems? Yet, miraculously, out of the blue, three
> weeks AFTER the accident the placenta suddenly separated from the
> uterus? Unprovoked?
> Are we then to believe that it was only 2 years later, during a
> subsequent pregnancy, that another doctor was able to determine
> that the matter was caused by a car accident three years earlier?
> Of course, that doctor was basis any such diagnosis on what you
> told him - not on the records he would have obtained from UCLA.
> Did you tell that doctor about the records at UCLA? I suspect not.
>> It was the stress of crying over you telling that you didn't want
>> me or G***** that caused the bleeding to start that day.
> Are you suggesting that the stress, which you had imposed upon
> yourself (all stress is self induced), caused you to start
> bleeding? Why would you suddenly be stressed about me not wanting
> to have children? I made it very clear to you before you even
> became pregnant that I didn't want children.
>> You wouldn't know that because you were calmly sitting at the
>> restaurant drinking a martini.
> That is incorrect. There was no where near the hotel to get a
> martini and I was in the hotel room with you. Otherwise, how
> could I have even known that you were in the bathroom, crying and
> bleeding? I didn't have a mobile phone.
>> And seriously, If there had been ANY evidence of trauma to the
>> abdominal region in the hospital, whether self-inflicted or not,
>> the police would have called.
> As always, your understanding of the law is misguided. Until the
> fetus is removed from the host, it is not considered a life of
> it's own and there is no law prohibiting the self-termination of a
> pregnancy. A doctor is not required to notify the police of such.
>> That was not even a subject that was brought up in the hospital.
> It's in your chart! Why don't you obtain and read the existing
> records before you respond?
>> Once again, you are distorting the facts and the truth to make it
>> appear how you want.
> All I ever do is recount what is in the supporting evidence.
> Memory is unreliable and skewed. My statements are based on what
> is in the reports and records. I would be very curious to review
> the medical reports from your pregnancy with Sage. Perhaps you
> would be kind enough to tell me who that doctor was and I can have
> my investigator "reach out" to his/her assistant.
>> On Friday, June 12, 2015, Patrick > <_e>> wrote:
>> Good morning, Desiree.
>> It seems to me you are still using the automobile accident
>> that you were involved in, on the 405, in July 2000, as the
>> basis for G*****'s premature birth (and the ROP that
>> resulted from such premature birth), and to gain people's pity.
>> I wish to review the facts so that we can put that matter to
>> rest once and for all.
>> 1. Following the accident, paramedics arrived on the scene.
>> They inspected you for possible injuries and found none. You
>> informed them you were pregnant. They performed further
>> tests to ensure no harm to the uterus and fetus. No harm was
>> found. In their professional opinion they did not believe it
>> was necessary to bring you to the hospital for further
>> inspection and/or tests.
>> 2. At that time we had Blue Cross PPO medical insurance,
>> under a group plan from the job I had with Fetch
>> Technologies. It is a very standard policy of EVERY health
>> insurance provider that, if an accident occurs and there is
>> even the slightest possibility of injuries then the recipient
>> MUST submit for medical tests. That is because the cost of
>> the tests is only a fraction of the cost of the medical care
>> that may result if there are injuries and they are ignored.
>> So, obviously, Blue Cross also did not consider your
>> condition worthy of further testing.
>> 3. If there was actually a uterine rupture, as you keep
>> claiming, there would have been other signs, which you would
>> not have been able to ignore, including abnormal heart rate
>> in the fetus; abdominal pain; vaginal bleeding; irritation to
>> the diaghragm; and internal bleeding. You had none of those
>> symptoms. If the paramedics had even the smallest evidence
>> to support the belief that there may have been a uterine
>> rupture (or any other damage/injury) then they would have
>> taken you to the hospital - especially since you were pregnant.
>> 4. The police and insurance reports of the accident clearly
>> state there were no injuries to you.
>> 5. After the accident, you walked away from it - literally!
>> You walked to a payphone and called me at work to inform me
>> of the accident. You insisted you were fine. When I got
>> home from work that evening you were fine and not
>> experiencing any discomfort. If you had any type of rupture
>> or "tear" (as you keep calling it), you would have been very
>> 6. Following the accident, you continued to attend your
>> gynecologist, who continued to do ultrasounds, and found no
>> 7. A few weeks after the accident we had a substantial
>> argument, wherein I pointed out how "bad things" seemed to
>> keep happening to you and how that was causing us so many
>> complications (namely financial). You cried and said you
>> wanted us to go back to Phoenix so you could be close to your
>> mother...what with the pregnancy and all. I told you I
>> didn't want to leave LA. You locked yourself in the bathroom
>> for some period of time. I eventually asked if you were
>> okay. You were crying and said you were bleeding. I brought
>> you to the UCLA Medical Center on Carson Street. During the
>> course of the many, repetitious questions from the interns
>> and residents, you admitted to them:
>> a) you had never been pregnant before;
>> b) you had never had an abortion before;
>> c) earlier that evening, you were upset about a fight we had
>> had and had been hitting yourself in the stomach;
>> d) you had been in a car accident a few weeks earlier.
>> 8. It was determined that the cause of the bleeding was from
>> hitting yourself in the stomach earlier that evening. The
>> doctors referred you to attend psychological counseling on an
>> outpatient basis. You said you would, but of course, you
>> never did.
>> 9. After that stomach punching incident, you stopped
>> attending your gynecologist.
>> 10. After that trip to the UCLA Medical Center I immediately
>> agreed to move back to Phoenix "so you could be close to your
>> family" during the pregnancy.
>> Now, what I would like from you is for you to deny these
>> claims and call me a liar. I will then, gladly, post the
>> medical, insurance, and police reports to your website. Yes,
>> medical reports are confidential, but you live in the
>> "greatest country in the world", where anything can be
>> purchased! Yay, America!
>> So, I will assume that the world (and G*****) will not be
>> hearing any more of that drivel from you that he was born
>> premature and has ROP because of a car accident.
>> Good day,
>> P.S. I've BCC'd all of the relevant parties.