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Re: The motivation for your behavior
From: Desiree Capuano <>
To: Patrick <>
Date: Mon, May 11 2015 11:31:24 am
Because you are wrong.

On Mon, May 11, 2015 at 11:25 AM, Patrick 

>  Desiree:
> Which is exactly what you say when you have no choice but to realize you
> are wrong and your argument has no merit.
> Good enough for me.
> Patrick
> P.S. Then why do you keep responding?  You're like the idiot woman that
> calls the guy to say she never wants to talk to him again.
> On 05/11/2015 11:03 AM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> You are just not worth it.
> On Mon, May 11, 2015 at 11:02 AM, Patrick 
> wrote:
>>  Desiree:
>> You're making broad generalizations again.  You need to be specific if
>> you expect the other party to consider your arguments.
>> Do you know who argues in such generalizations?  People who don't have an
>> argument.  People who realize they have no real rebutal.
>> Patrick
>> On 05/11/2015 10:49 AM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
>> Richard, everything you say is so far out of the realm of reality it
>> doesn't bother a rebuttal...but you keep thinking you're far superior...I'm
>> sure it makes you feel better about the world.
>> On Sat, May 9, 2015 at 10:52 AM, Patrick 
>> wrote:
>>>  Desiree:
>>> I find it decided telling that your only response was a trite attempt at
>>> sarcasm.  No attempt to disprove or even rebut any of what I said.
>>> Tell me, honestly, that you disagree with anything I said below.  Tell
>>> me that you seriously believe, given the choice, that G***** would choose
>>> to remain with you.
>>> Patrick
>>> On 05/07/2015 04:29 PM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
>>> Oh my God Richard!!   You nailed it!!  I will never have to do any more
>>> introspection ever again.  (In case it didn't come across in email - that
>>> was sarcasm)
>>> On Thursday, May 7, 2015, Patrick  wrote:
>>>> Desiree:
>>>> The only reason you're being such a stupid cunt right now (well, always
>>>> really) is because you know that G***** would rather be with me than with
>>>> you.  It burns you that after 2 and a half years he has not bonded with you
>>>> and that he still speaks highly of me.  You're jealous - but not because
>>>> you want to be a good parent - but because your head is filled with silly
>>>> fairy tales about "perfect families" and "the inherit love between a mother
>>>> and a child".  You grew up watching Disney movies and you still believe
>>>> that's life.
>>>> You're pissed off because you know that I deliberately withdrew from
>>>> the family court proceedings because I wanted G***** to see what you're
>>>> like when you don't have a court order compelling you to be cooperative,
>>>> and you know that I was right in doing so.  You see that G***** has not
>>>> bonded with you and you know that given the choice he would leave you in a
>>>> heartbeat.  You know that you've failed as a parent because you've not done
>>>> a single thing to improve the quality of his life.  You see the differences
>>>> between G***** and Sage and you know that you and Michael fucked up with
>>>> Sage.  You know that you will never be a good parent because you lack
>>>> values and decency.  You are incapable of teaching your children because
>>>> you are ashamed of the mistakes you've made and rather than admitting them
>>>> and sharing your experiences with your children so that they don't make the
>>>> same mistakes, you pretend they never happened - ensuring that your child
>>>> absolutely will make the same mistakes.  It's the same way your mother
>>>> raised you and look: you're making the same mistakes she did.
>>>> It kills you that I am so open with G***** that I will share with him
>>>> the worst things that have happened in my life, and that I will accept full
>>>> responsibility for many of them.  That I can admit to my mistakes so that
>>>> he can benefit from them.
>>>> Furthermore, it angers you that you keep doing things and they keep
>>>> backfiring on you.  It drives you crazy that I can be so indifferent to
>>>> you.  That you mean so little to me as a human being that if you were
>>>> starving in the street I would not give you the time of day, while at the
>>>> same time I volunteer on a regular basis at a homeless shelter.  So it's
>>>> not that I lack compassion - I just sincerely believe that gross, nasty,
>>>> white trash people like you; people that are so self absorbed; people that
>>>> will ruin another person's life with false accusations just to save
>>>> themselves a little humiliation, without giving it a second thought; are
>>>> the lowest of people and that the world would not miss them, nee, in fact,
>>>> the world would be a better place without them.  People like you contribute
>>>> nothing to the world or to society - you just suck the life and the
>>>> goodness out of all the people that try to be nice and to be helpful.  You
>>>> think that if you smile and inflect your statements so they sound sweet
>>>> that everything will be okay.  But it won't.  You're just a terrible, sick
>>>> person.
>>>> But you're a product of the environment you grew up in.  You're just
>>>> carrying on the traditions you learned from your equally sick mother.  It's
>>>> just who you are.  It's all you know.
>>>> And THAT is why you act like such a deranged bitch toward me.  I know
>>>> it, and so, your actions mean very little to me.
>>>> Good day,
>>>> Patrick