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Re: The motivation for your behavior
From: Desiree Capuano <>
To: Patrick <>
Date: Mon, May 11 2015 11:03:30 am
You are just not worth it.

On Mon, May 11, 2015 at 11:02 AM, Patrick 

>  Desiree:
> You're making broad generalizations again.  You need to be specific if you
> expect the other party to consider your arguments.
> Do you know who argues in such generalizations?  People who don't have an
> argument.  People who realize they have no real rebutal.
> Patrick
> On 05/11/2015 10:49 AM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> Richard, everything you say is so far out of the realm of reality it
> doesn't bother a rebuttal...but you keep thinking you're far superior...I'm
> sure it makes you feel better about the world.
> On Sat, May 9, 2015 at 10:52 AM, Patrick 
> wrote:
>>  Desiree:
>> I find it decided telling that your only response was a trite attempt at
>> sarcasm.  No attempt to disprove or even rebut any of what I said.
>> Tell me, honestly, that you disagree with anything I said below.  Tell me
>> that you seriously believe, given the choice, that G***** would choose to
>> remain with you.
>> Patrick
>> On 05/07/2015 04:29 PM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
>> Oh my God Richard!!   You nailed it!!  I will never have to do any more
>> introspection ever again.  (In case it didn't come across in email - that
>> was sarcasm)
>> On Thursday, May 7, 2015, Patrick  wrote:
>>> Desiree:
>>> The only reason you're being such a stupid cunt right now (well, always
>>> really) is because you know that G***** would rather be with me than with
>>> you.  It burns you that after 2 and a half years he has not bonded with you
>>> and that he still speaks highly of me.  You're jealous - but not because
>>> you want to be a good parent - but because your head is filled with silly
>>> fairy tales about "perfect families" and "the inherit love between a mother
>>> and a child".  You grew up watching Disney movies and you still believe
>>> that's life.
>>> You're pissed off because you know that I deliberately withdrew from the
>>> family court proceedings because I wanted G***** to see what you're like
>>> when you don't have a court order compelling you to be cooperative, and you
>>> know that I was right in doing so.  You see that G***** has not bonded
>>> with you and you know that given the choice he would leave you in a
>>> heartbeat.  You know that you've failed as a parent because you've not done
>>> a single thing to improve the quality of his life.  You see the differences
>>> between G***** and Sage and you know that you and Michael fucked up with
>>> Sage.  You know that you will never be a good parent because you lack
>>> values and decency.  You are incapable of teaching your children because
>>> you are ashamed of the mistakes you've made and rather than admitting them
>>> and sharing your experiences with your children so that they don't make the
>>> same mistakes, you pretend they never happened - ensuring that your child
>>> absolutely will make the same mistakes.  It's the same way your mother
>>> raised you and look: you're making the same mistakes she did.
>>> It kills you that I am so open with G***** that I will share with him
>>> the worst things that have happened in my life, and that I will accept full
>>> responsibility for many of them.  That I can admit to my mistakes so that
>>> he can benefit from them.
>>> Furthermore, it angers you that you keep doing things and they keep
>>> backfiring on you.  It drives you crazy that I can be so indifferent to
>>> you.  That you mean so little to me as a human being that if you were
>>> starving in the street I would not give you the time of day, while at the
>>> same time I volunteer on a regular basis at a homeless shelter.  So it's
>>> not that I lack compassion - I just sincerely believe that gross, nasty,
>>> white trash people like you; people that are so self absorbed; people that
>>> will ruin another person's life with false accusations just to save
>>> themselves a little humiliation, without giving it a second thought; are
>>> the lowest of people and that the world would not miss them, nee, in fact,
>>> the world would be a better place without them.  People like you contribute
>>> nothing to the world or to society - you just suck the life and the
>>> goodness out of all the people that try to be nice and to be helpful.  You
>>> think that if you smile and inflect your statements so they sound sweet
>>> that everything will be okay.  But it won't.  You're just a terrible, sick
>>> person.
>>> But you're a product of the environment you grew up in.  You're just
>>> carrying on the traditions you learned from your equally sick mother.  It's
>>> just who you are.  It's all you know.
>>> And THAT is why you act like such a deranged bitch toward me.  I know
>>> it, and so, your actions mean very little to me.
>>> Good day,
>>> Patrick