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Re: More of what I know
From: Patrick <>
To: Desiree Capuano <>
Date: Mon, May 11 2015 10:56:05 am

Admittedly, yes, I am quickly annoyed by stupidity.


On 05/11/2015 10:40 AM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> oh, don't you know?  I'm trying to play right into your plan of 
> turning G***** against me by showing him how you never get 
> annoyed..."Why is it that you don't just shut up and fuck off"  - 
> clearly not annoyed.
> On Thu, May 7, 2015 at 7:14 PM, Patrick  > wrote:
>     Desiree:
>     If your position is that you are going to allow G***** to visit
>     and there's nothing I can do to make you refuse to allow him to
>     visit, then why are we even having all of this communication?  Why
>     is it that you don't just shut up and fuck off, and let that be
>     the end of it?  On my end, the purpose of the communication
>     revolves around G***** being able to come to Vancouver for part
>     of the summer so that I can fulfill my duties to him as his
>     father.  You seem to be arguing about the same thing, however now
>     you're saying that you're going to allow him to come and there's
>     nothing I can do to make you NOT allow it.
>     So, what the fuck are we talking for then?  If you're going to
>     allow G***** to visit then there is nothing further for us to say
>     to each other.  Anything I could possibly want to say to or about
>     you I'd rather post on your web site, anyway.
>     Patrick
>     On 05/07/2015 04:27 PM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
>>     Oh you little man.  I don't fear you or G***** opinion of me.  I
>>     am also not preventing visitation.  Try as you might to get me to
>>     say 'no' I will not do it.
>>     On Thursday, May 7, 2015, Patrick >     > wrote:
>>         Desiree:
>>         By the way, I know you don't deal well with reality, so I
>>         don't expect you to respond sincerely to these most recent
>>         messages.
>>         Patrick
>>         On 05/07/2015 01:07 PM, Patrick wrote:
>>             Desiree:
>>             I also know that you don't want to let G***** visit with
>>             me because you know that when he visits we bond more and
>>             that puts more distance "emotionally" between you and
>>             him; yet you don't want to explicitly refuse to let him
>>             visit because you know that he will resent you for it.
>>             So, you're trying to create a situation whereby you can
>>             say it was because of me that he couldn't visit.  But
>>             I've explained to him that my mother used to do the same
>>             stuff when I was a kid.  That my father eventually
>>             stopped coming to visit and I learned later in life that
>>             it was because of the games my mother would play - the
>>             same stuff you're doing right now.
>>             As always, your scheme won't work.  The only way it could
>>             would be if you completely cut off communication between
>>             G***** and I and made it so he could only hear your
>>             version of events. But there's no way you can do that
>>             without grossly upsetting the court and G*****.  And
>>             your versions of events always rely on the listener's
>>             pity and sense of guilt.  Eventually, people get tired of
>>             hearing about how someone is always such a victim because
>>             in reality most of the problems in our lives are the
>>             result of our own actions and the only people that don't
>>             realize that are the ones that are always trying to blame
>>             others for their problems - people like you.
>>             Patrick