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Re: More of what I know
From: Desiree Capuano <>
To: Patrick <>
Date: Mon, May 11 2015 10:40:25 am
oh, don't you know?  I'm trying to play right into your plan of turning
G***** against me by showing him how you never get annoyed..."Why is it
that you don't just shut up and fuck off"  - clearly not annoyed.

On Thu, May 7, 2015 at 7:14 PM, Patrick 

>  Desiree:
> If your position is that you are going to allow G***** to visit and
> there's nothing I can do to make you refuse to allow him to visit, then why
> are we even having all of this communication?  Why is it that you don't
> just shut up and fuck off, and let that be the end of it?  On my end, the
> purpose of the communication revolves around G***** being able to come to
> Vancouver for part of the summer so that I can fulfill my duties to him as
> his father.  You seem to be arguing about the same thing, however now
> you're saying that you're going to allow him to come and there's nothing I
> can do to make you NOT allow it.
> So, what the fuck are we talking for then?  If you're going to allow
> G***** to visit then there is nothing further for us to say to each
> other.  Anything I could possibly want to say to or about you I'd rather
> post on your web site, anyway.
> Patrick
> On 05/07/2015 04:27 PM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> Oh you little man.  I don't fear you or G***** opinion of me.  I am also
> not preventing visitation.  Try as you might to get me to say 'no' I will
> not do it.
> On Thursday, May 7, 2015, Patrick  wrote:
>> Desiree:
>> By the way, I know you don't deal well with reality, so I don't expect
>> you to respond sincerely to these most recent messages.
>> Patrick
>> On 05/07/2015 01:07 PM, Patrick wrote:
>>> Desiree:
>>> I also know that you don't want to let G***** visit with me because you
>>> know that when he visits we bond more and that puts more distance
>>> "emotionally" between you and him; yet you don't want to explicitly refuse
>>> to let him visit because you know that he will resent you for it.
>>> So, you're trying to create a situation whereby you can say it was
>>> because of me that he couldn't visit.  But I've explained to him that my
>>> mother used to do the same stuff when I was a kid.  That my father
>>> eventually stopped coming to visit and I learned later in life that it was
>>> because of the games my mother would play - the same stuff you're doing
>>> right now.
>>> As always, your scheme won't work.  The only way it could would be if
>>> you completely cut off communication between G***** and I and made it so
>>> he could only hear your version of events.  But there's no way you can do
>>> that without grossly upsetting the court and G*****.  And your versions of
>>> events always rely on the listener's pity and sense of guilt.  Eventually,
>>> people get tired of hearing about how someone is always such a victim
>>> because in reality most of the problems in our lives are the result of our
>>> own actions and the only people that don't realize that are the ones that
>>> are always trying to blame others for their problems - people like you.
>>> Patrick