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Re: The motivation for your behavior
From: Desiree Capuano <>
To: Patrick <>
Date: Mon, May 11 2015 10:49:40 am
Richard, everything you say is so far out of the realm of reality it
doesn't bother a rebuttal...but you keep thinking you're far superior...I'm
sure it makes you feel better about the world.

On Sat, May 9, 2015 at 10:52 AM, Patrick 

>  Desiree:
> I find it decided telling that your only response was a trite attempt at
> sarcasm.  No attempt to disprove or even rebut any of what I said.
> Tell me, honestly, that you disagree with anything I said below.  Tell me
> that you seriously believe, given the choice, that G***** would choose to
> remain with you.
> Patrick
> On 05/07/2015 04:29 PM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> Oh my God Richard!!   You nailed it!!  I will never have to do any more
> introspection ever again.  (In case it didn't come across in email - that
> was sarcasm)
> On Thursday, May 7, 2015, Patrick  wrote:
>> Desiree:
>> The only reason you're being such a stupid cunt right now (well, always
>> really) is because you know that G***** would rather be with me than with
>> you.  It burns you that after 2 and a half years he has not bonded with you
>> and that he still speaks highly of me.  You're jealous - but not because
>> you want to be a good parent - but because your head is filled with silly
>> fairy tales about "perfect families" and "the inherit love between a mother
>> and a child".  You grew up watching Disney movies and you still believe
>> that's life.
>> You're pissed off because you know that I deliberately withdrew from the
>> family court proceedings because I wanted G***** to see what you're like
>> when you don't have a court order compelling you to be cooperative, and you
>> know that I was right in doing so.  You see that G***** has not bonded
>> with you and you know that given the choice he would leave you in a
>> heartbeat.  You know that you've failed as a parent because you've not done
>> a single thing to improve the quality of his life.  You see the differences
>> between G***** and Sage and you know that you and Michael fucked up with
>> Sage.  You know that you will never be a good parent because you lack
>> values and decency.  You are incapable of teaching your children because
>> you are ashamed of the mistakes you've made and rather than admitting them
>> and sharing your experiences with your children so that they don't make the
>> same mistakes, you pretend they never happened - ensuring that your child
>> absolutely will make the same mistakes.  It's the same way your mother
>> raised you and look: you're making the same mistakes she did.
>> It kills you that I am so open with G***** that I will share with him
>> the worst things that have happened in my life, and that I will accept full
>> responsibility for many of them.  That I can admit to my mistakes so that
>> he can benefit from them.
>> Furthermore, it angers you that you keep doing things and they keep
>> backfiring on you.  It drives you crazy that I can be so indifferent to
>> you.  That you mean so little to me as a human being that if you were
>> starving in the street I would not give you the time of day, while at the
>> same time I volunteer on a regular basis at a homeless shelter.  So it's
>> not that I lack compassion - I just sincerely believe that gross, nasty,
>> white trash people like you; people that are so self absorbed; people that
>> will ruin another person's life with false accusations just to save
>> themselves a little humiliation, without giving it a second thought; are
>> the lowest of people and that the world would not miss them, nee, in fact,
>> the world would be a better place without them.  People like you contribute
>> nothing to the world or to society - you just suck the life and the
>> goodness out of all the people that try to be nice and to be helpful.  You
>> think that if you smile and inflect your statements so they sound sweet
>> that everything will be okay.  But it won't.  You're just a terrible, sick
>> person.
>> But you're a product of the environment you grew up in.  You're just
>> carrying on the traditions you learned from your equally sick mother.  It's
>> just who you are.  It's all you know.
>> And THAT is why you act like such a deranged bitch toward me.  I know it,
>> and so, your actions mean very little to me.
>> Good day,
>> Patrick