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Re: More of what I know
From: Patrick <>
To: Desiree Capuano <>
Date: Thu, May 07 2015 7:14:25 pm

If your position is that you are going to allow G***** to visit and 
there's nothing I can do to make you refuse to allow him to visit, then 
why are we even having all of this communication?  Why is it that you 
don't just shut up and fuck off, and let that be the end of it?  On my 
end, the purpose of the communication revolves around G***** being able 
to come to Vancouver for part of the summer so that I can fulfill my 
duties to him as his father.  You seem to be arguing about the same 
thing, however now you're saying that you're going to allow him to come 
and there's nothing I can do to make you NOT allow it.

So, what the fuck are we talking for then?  If you're going to allow 
G***** to visit then there is nothing further for us to say to each 
other.  Anything I could possibly want to say to or about you I'd rather 
post on your web site, anyway.


On 05/07/2015 04:27 PM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> Oh you little man.  I don't fear you or G***** opinion of me.  I am 
> also not preventing visitation.  Try as you might to get me to say 
> 'no' I will not do it.
> On Thursday, May 7, 2015, Patrick  > wrote:
>     Desiree:
>     By the way, I know you don't deal well with reality, so I don't
>     expect you to respond sincerely to these most recent messages.
>     Patrick
>     On 05/07/2015 01:07 PM, Patrick wrote:
>         Desiree:
>         I also know that you don't want to let G***** visit with me
>         because you know that when he visits we bond more and that
>         puts more distance "emotionally" between you and him; yet you
>         don't want to explicitly refuse to let him visit because you
>         know that he will resent you for it.
>         So, you're trying to create a situation whereby you can say it
>         was because of me that he couldn't visit.  But I've explained
>         to him that my mother used to do the same stuff when I was a
>         kid.  That my father eventually stopped coming to visit and I
>         learned later in life that it was because of the games my
>         mother would play - the same stuff you're doing right now.
>         As always, your scheme won't work.  The only way it could
>         would be if you completely cut off communication between
>         G***** and I and made it so he could only hear your version
>         of events.  But there's no way you can do that without grossly
>         upsetting the court and G*****.  And your versions of events
>         always rely on the listener's pity and sense of guilt.
>         Eventually, people get tired of hearing about how someone is
>         always such a victim because in reality most of the problems
>         in our lives are the result of our own actions and the only
>         people that don't realize that are the ones that are always
>         trying to blame others for their problems - people like you.
>         Patrick