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Re: The motivation for your behavior
From: Desiree Capuano <>
To: Patrick <>
Date: Thu, May 07 2015 4:29:19 pm
Oh my God Richard!!   You nailed it!!  I will never have to do any more
introspection ever again.  (In case it didn't come across in email - that
was sarcasm)

On Thursday, May 7, 2015, Patrick  wrote:

> Desiree:
> The only reason you're being such a stupid cunt right now (well, always
> really) is because you know that G***** would rather be with me than with
> you.  It burns you that after 2 and a half years he has not bonded with you
> and that he still speaks highly of me.  You're jealous - but not because
> you want to be a good parent - but because your head is filled with silly
> fairy tales about "perfect families" and "the inherit love between a mother
> and a child".  You grew up watching Disney movies and you still believe
> that's life.
> You're pissed off because you know that I deliberately withdrew from the
> family court proceedings because I wanted G***** to see what you're like
> when you don't have a court order compelling you to be cooperative, and you
> know that I was right in doing so.  You see that G***** has not bonded
> with you and you know that given the choice he would leave you in a
> heartbeat.  You know that you've failed as a parent because you've not done
> a single thing to improve the quality of his life.  You see the differences
> between G***** and Sage and you know that you and Michael fucked up with
> Sage.  You know that you will never be a good parent because you lack
> values and decency.  You are incapable of teaching your children because
> you are ashamed of the mistakes you've made and rather than admitting them
> and sharing your experiences with your children so that they don't make the
> same mistakes, you pretend they never happened - ensuring that your child
> absolutely will make the same mistakes.  It's the same way your mother
> raised you and look: you're making the same mistakes she did.
> It kills you that I am so open with G***** that I will share with him the
> worst things that have happened in my life, and that I will accept full
> responsibility for many of them.  That I can admit to my mistakes so that
> he can benefit from them.
> Furthermore, it angers you that you keep doing things and they keep
> backfiring on you.  It drives you crazy that I can be so indifferent to
> you.  That you mean so little to me as a human being that if you were
> starving in the street I would not give you the time of day, while at the
> same time I volunteer on a regular basis at a homeless shelter.  So it's
> not that I lack compassion - I just sincerely believe that gross, nasty,
> white trash people like you; people that are so self absorbed; people that
> will ruin another person's life with false accusations just to save
> themselves a little humiliation, without giving it a second thought; are
> the lowest of people and that the world would not miss them, nee, in fact,
> the world would be a better place without them.  People like you contribute
> nothing to the world or to society - you just suck the life and the
> goodness out of all the people that try to be nice and to be helpful.  You
> think that if you smile and inflect your statements so they sound sweet
> that everything will be okay.  But it won't.  You're just a terrible, sick
> person.
> But you're a product of the environment you grew up in.  You're just
> carrying on the traditions you learned from your equally sick mother.  It's
> just who you are.  It's all you know.
> And THAT is why you act like such a deranged bitch toward me.  I know it,
> and so, your actions mean very little to me.
> Good day,
> Patrick