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Re: G*****'s Spring Break
From: Patrick <>
To: Desiree Capuano <>
Date: Wed, Jan 28 2015 7:20:09 am

Neither I, nor G*****, care about your plans.  G***** is aware that 
you have already made plans for the Spring Break, but still he would 
rather visit me then spend it with you.

When G***** was with me I allowed him to set the visitation schedule, 
which resulted in him spending every one of his extended school breaks 
with you even though it meant I was never able to take any trips with 
him.  That is because, unlike you, I actually DO respect his wishes.

Anyway, the point of the request was to prove, once again, that I am a 
better person and a better parent - because I put G*****'s desires with 
respect to visitation before mine; and because, unlike you, I have never 
interferred with G*****'s desire to visit with you.

Once again, you have been played.  You have manipulated into admitted 
exactly what I wanted you to.  Thank you for being so easy to control.

By the way, you never provided a copy of the Order and Finding After 
Hearing which was filed by one on August 1, 2015.

One last suggestion about good parenting: one you're upset about 
something, say like our debates, you really shouldn't take it out on 
your children.  That's very bad parenting.


On 01/28/2015 06:41 AM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> Richard,
> The answer to your demand (that was not a request) is no. Let me 
> repeat that since you never get it the first time.  No, G***** may 
> NOT visit during his Spring Break as plans have already been made.
> Reasonable visitation does not mean that I am required to jump 
> whenever you snap your fingers or send G***** at every one of his 
> vacations.  It is SUPPOSED to be a negotiation.  We already have 
> family plans over Spring Break and G***** already knows this or should.
> My behavior now is absolutely no different than before you declared in 
> open court that you wished to relinquish all parental rights to 
> G*****.  Another unfounded baseless accusation.  Good job.
> ~ Desiree
> On Tuesday, January 27, 2015, Patrick  > wrote:
>     Desiree:
>     G***** told me tonight that he would like to come to Vancouver,
>     to visit with me during his Spring Break, which runs from March 7,
>     2015 through March 15, 2015, but that he didn't think you'd agree
>     to it.
>     I'm done with showing him what you're like when there's no court
>     orders in place so we will be returning to court shortly.  In the
>     meantime may you provide your written consent for G***** to spend
>     his Spring Break with me in Vancouver?  If you decline, I will
>     have my attorney schedule a hearing for the matter and we both
>     know the court is going to order you to allow him to visit, being
>     that he hasn't seen me since the beginning of January.
>     If I don't receive your written response by January 31, 2015 then
>     I'll assume you refuse consent.
>     Sincerely,
>     Patrick