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250 E. Placita Lago Del Mago
Sahuarita, AZ     85629
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Re: G***** travel dates
From: Patrick <>
To: Desiree Capuano <>
Date: Wed, Nov 26 2014 7:31:07 am
Thank you.

I don't believe I am incapable of comprehending.  I choose NOT to make 
assumptions about other peoples' intended meanings.  It is my belief it 
is better to request clarification, than to make a potentially incorrect 
assumption.  Particularly, when there is as much animosity between the 
parties as there is between us.

My desire is to have written documentation of your agreement to allow 
G***** to travel to a specific location on a specific date and to 
return to you on a specific date so there is no potential for either 
party to claim they thought otherwise, later.  I think that is a 
reasonable desire given your history of changing your mind and backing 
out of commitments.

I will make every reasonable effort to facilitate any request by G***** 
to visit any person acting as the fictional character Santa Claus, 
during his upcoming visit with me.


On 11/26/2014 06:53 AM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> You are a reasonably smart individual.  I apologize for making the 
> assumption that you would be capable of comprehending the intent of 
> the previous affirmation.
> Allow me to be more clear:
> I permit G***** to travel to Vancouver, Canada on December 20, 
> 2014, and subsequently return to Phoenix, AZ on January 3, 2015.  
> During this period of time he is to remain in the sole care of his 
> father Richard, an no one else.  Further, G***** is not 
> permitted to travel to any location outside of Vancouver during that 
> time until his return to Phoenix AZ on January 3, 2015.  Any deviation 
> from the above stated itinerary will be inferred to be in violation of 
> the above stated agreement, and may be interpreted as but not limited 
> to kidnapping.
> P.s. G***** has stated that while in Canada he would like to visit 
> Santa Claus in a mall as it is closer to the North Pole.  Please may 
> you confirm that you will facilitate this request.
> On Tuesday, November 25, 2014, Patrick  > wrote:
>     Desiree:
>     I shall give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you
>     sincerely do not understand the request and it's intention.
>     Before I spend a bunch of money on G*****'s travel,
>     accommodations, and activities, I desire from you a written
>     commitment that you will permit him to travel and to remain in my
>     charge for a clearly specified period of time.  Particularly, that
>     you will permit him to travel to Vancouver on a specified date and
>     travel back to Phoenix on another specified date, and that you
>     will permit him to remain in my care for the duration of time
>     between those two dates.
>     My previous request for clarification was because your original
>     response stated only two dates with the word "to" between them. 
>     It was not a complete sentence and, therefore, was open to broad
>     interpretation.
>     On a sidenote, I respectfully request you stop referring to me as
>     "Richard".  It is not my legal name and, under the current laws of
>     Canada, British Columbia, the United States of America,
>     California, and Arizona (in other words, all relevent
>     jurisdictions) it never was.  Just as your legal name, and name of
>     choice, is Desiree Capuano and I respectfully refer to you as such
>     - rather than insisting on referring to you as Desiree Tomlin or
>     Desiree Riess, I would expect you to behave with the same level of
>     courtesy and respect toward me.
>     Now, if you wouldn't mind, may you please forward me an email
>     stating the following (in fact you can just copy and paste it into
>     an email):
>     I permit G***** to travel to Vancouver, Canada on December
>     20, 2014, to return to Phoenix, AZ on January3, 2015, and to
>     remain in the care of Patrick during that period of time.
>     Thank you!
>     Patrick
>     On 11/25/2014 06:58 PM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
>>     Richard,
>>     G***** and I have discussed this.  Per the discussion with my
>>     son, and my previous e-mail, those are the dates that I permit
>>     for G*****'s visit.
>>     On Tuesday, November 25, 2014, Patrick
>>     >     > wrote:
>>         Desiree:
>>         For the sake of being unambiguous, may you please confirm,
>>         that by your previous response attached herein, you are
>>         stating that you permit G***** to travel to visit with me on
>>         December 20, 2014 and to return from such visit on January 3,
>>         2015?
>>         Patrick
>>         On 2014-11-23 6:44 AM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
>>>         12/20/14 to 01/03/15
>>>         On Saturday, November 22, 2014, Patrick
>>>          wrote:
>>>             Desiree:
>>>             G***** has informed me that you have told him he may
>>>             visit with me during his winter break. If that is
>>>             correct, then please provide me the dates upon which you
>>>             will permit him to travel so that I may make the
>>>             arrangements.
>>>             Patrick