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Re: G***** travel dates
From: Patrick <>
To: Desiree Capuano <>
Date: Tue, Nov 25 2014 7:54:49 pm

I'm terribly sorry to interrupt again, but I do wish to point out that 
in your most recent email you referred to G***** using the possessive 
"my son", while referring to something (or in this case someONE) which 
is just as much MY son.  The psychology of such an expression is that 
you are:
a) asserting your ownership and possession of the subject (G*****) over 
the other party (me);
b) demonstrating that you, at least subconsciously, think of the subject 
(G*****) as a possession - not as an independent person with his own mind;
c) demonstrating that you are capable of viewing the subject (G*****) 
only in terms of how it (he) relates to you and not as a separate entity 
capable of existing independently of you.

Just thought I'd point that know, in case you decide you would 
actually like to become a better person someday.


On 11/25/2014 06:58 PM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
> Richard,
> G***** and I have discussed this.  Per the discussion with my 
> son, and my previous e-mail, those are the dates that I permit for 
> G*****'s visit.
> On Tuesday, November 25, 2014, Patrick  > wrote:
>     Desiree:
>     For the sake of being unambiguous, may you please confirm, that by
>     your previous response attached herein, you are stating that you
>     permit G***** to travel to visit with me on December 20, 2014 and
>     to return from such visit on January 3, 2015?
>     Patrick
>     On 2014-11-23 6:44 AM, Desiree Capuano wrote:
>>     12/20/14 to 01/03/15
>>     On Saturday, November 22, 2014, Patrick
>>     >     > wrote:
>>         Desiree:
>>         G***** has informed me that you have told him he may visit
>>         with me during his winter break.  If that is correct, then
>>         please provide me the dates upon which you will permit him to
>>         travel so that I may make the arrangements.
>>         Patrick