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Desiree Capuano & James Pendleton
250 E. Placita Lago Del Mago
Sahuarita, AZ     85629
Tel: 520-288-8200
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Re: Update [Incident ID: 23554271] - Re: Spam Warning - Email
From: Patrick <>
To: GoDaddy <>
Date: Wed, Jul 30 2014 3:07:31 pm

Desiree Capuano is my estranged wife, and the mother of our son.  I am 
unfortunately, required to have contact with her in order to provide for 
and facilitate support for our son.  There is nothing for her to 
"opt-in" because we correspond on a regular basis.  I have included her 
in this email to demonstrate that I am not hiding anything from her, and 
to show she is full of crap and just attempting to prevent me from 
publishing factual information about her.

I would also like to point out that any list members who have requested 
to be removed from the list have, in fact, been removed. Miss Capuano 
has, in fact, never requested to be removed from the list.  If she 
wishes to be then I would gladly remove her as my intention is primarily 
to reach her associates and acquaintances - not her.

With respect to hosting of the domain with godaddy, I 
am indifferent and would gladly host it (and all my other domains on my 
business account) on my own DNS servers, or with another provider, if 
you do not wish to retain my business.  If you decide to terminate the 
service, I request you provide me at least 24 hour's notice so I may 
move all of my hosted data to my own servers.

I thank you for your assistance and understanding in this matter.


On 07/30/2014 02:19 PM, wrote:
> Information regarding your request
> Information regarding your request
> Information regarding your request
> The Domain Name Abuse Department has responded to your inquiry, 
> details of which are described below:
> *
> Discussion Notes
> *Support Staff Response*
> Dear Sir/Madam,
> Thank you for contacting GoDaddy's Domain Name Abuse Department.
> GoDaddy defines spam as a mailing sent to recipients, as an 
> advertisement or otherwise, without first obtaining prior confirmed 
> consent from the recipients before sending the mailing in question. 
> Prior consent must be given to you directly from the recipients of 
> your mailing for the specific domain name that you are advertising.
> GoDaddy does not consider consent to be transferable. For example, 
> simply purchasing, renting, or leasing an "opt-in" list from another 
> company does not constitute proof of opt-in or prior consent. If you 
> or another company are sending mailings advertising your domain name 
> or website to individuals that have not requested this information 
> from you directly, it is our opinion that you are spamming these 
> individuals.
> You can view GoDaddy's Anti-Spam policy by clicking on the "Anti-Spam 
> Policy" link located on Go Daddy's "Legal Agreement" page. Click the 
> following link to access GoDaddy's "Legal Agreements" page: 
> ----- Provide Proof Of Prior Consent -----
> GoDaddy has a strict anti-spam policy, GoDaddy customers are required 
> to be able to provide conclusive proof of prior consent for any 
> individual they send advertisements to. This also applies to the 
> actions of any party that generates traffic on your behalf. This 
> includes, but is not limited to, 3rd party marketers, business 
> partners, employees, mailing list providers and affiliates.
> We have supplied an example address from a complaint in order to allow 
> you to investigate the situation and show proof of prior consent to 
> receive your mailings. Proof of prior consent can be provided by 
> supplying the information outlined below.
> 1. Provide server logs showing when the complainant connected to your 
> site and subscribed, opted-in, or consented to receive marketing 
> information from your organization. This information must include the 
> following:
> * Time/Date of opt-in/subscription/consent.
> * IP address of the web server the complainant used to connect to your 
> site.
> * Referral URL.
> 2. Provide a detailed explanation of how the example email address was 
> obtained, provide a copy of any confirmation messages, complete with 
> header information, that this individual sent to you when they 
> consented to receive marketing information from your company.
> 3. In addition to the information outlined above, please forward all 
> contact information you have for this individual along with any other 
> relevant information that you feel supports your claim of prior consent.
> -----
> We will then investigate the validity of the information that you 
> provide. The complainant located at the example email address may be 
> contacted to verify and/or confirm any contact information or 
> subscription details. If the information you provide checks out, we 
> can probably consider this a situation where this person has forgotten 
> they opted-in.
> The address is: ****, a copy of the offending 
> email message has been included at the end of this message to assist 
> you in your investigation.
> * PLEASE NOTE you must reply with the requested information within 48 
> hours, failure to do so may lead to actions such as the suspension or 
> cancellation of your service.
> Here is a copy of the offending email message:
> *Date: Wed, 23 Jul 2014 09:50:34 -0700
> From: Patrick 
> To: 
> Subject: Request for status update*
> Hello Desiree!
> It has been a little over a year and a half now, since you filed your 
> false report against me with ICE, claiming I was an illegal alien 
> (from Canada) so that I would be arrested and deported, and you could 
> force the family court to grant you custody of our 13 year old son by 
> default. The son, I remind you, that you abandoned when he was a year 
> and a half old so you could run back to Florida to be with your 
> ex-boyfriend, whom you then married (while still being married to me). 
> The son that I raised from the age of 18 months without any contact 
> from you.
> As I've always maintained, one of the most important duties of a 
> parent is to teach their child about life in order to prepare them to 
> go on their own.  So, I ask you, after a year and a half of having 
> custody of G*****, what have you taught him?
> During the past year I have:
> - provided him a credit card for financial support (clothing, medical 
> care, school supplies) because you refused to accept any financial 
> support from me for him;
> - when he came to visit in December he and I opened a checking and a 
> savings account in his name - into which I've been depositing $100 a 
> week on the condition that he put at least 10% into his savings 
> account, and that he must pay his own cellular bill each month and pay 
> for his own video games, et cetera - to teach him financial 
> responsibility;
> - I've loaned him extra money to buy a couple of things he wanted - to 
> teach him why borrowing and credit are bad, and the importance of not 
> over-extending his credit;
> - I've gotten him a bicycle and taught him to ride it;
> - I've taught him why it's bad to be and to associate with trashy 
> people, and some of the mannerisms to watch for to tell that someone 
> is trashy;
> - I've taught him the importance of always being honorable and 
> conducting himself with dignity;
> - I've taught him why it's bad for him to lie to people in order to 
> protect you (because then the other people in his life will lose trust 
> in him);
> - I've taught him to be proactive about things and not rely on other 
> people unless absolutely necessary.
> And that's just in the 9 weeks he's been with me since December.
> I've spoken with him about what kinds of things you've been teaching 
> him.  He says that you frequently try to convince him that marijuana 
> is good because it's natural (though, so is herion and cocaine, so I 
> fail to see your logic); he says that you tell him that eventually 
> he'll learn to appreciate and even like the smell of marijuana; he 
> says that you've told him that as long as you drink water while you 
> consume alcohol you won't get drunk.  So that's how you're preparing 
> him for life?
> And, for all the 1200 or so people that have been BCC'd this message, 
> I wonder if you've told them about:
> - how you showed up in LA in 2011 after not being in G*****'s life 
> for 9 years and took him, against his will, to Arizona and tried to 
> get emergency custody of him by telling the court that I "hid" him 
> from you for those 9 years (a claim which has been proven false);
> - that you were living with and engaged to a meth user (Kristopher 
> Lauchner) who actually took G***** and Sage with him to Walmart to 
> pass counterfeit currency resulting in his arrest while the kids were 
> with him;
> - that you adamantly defended Kris's actions and insisted he was the 
> best man you've ever known;
> - that you and Kris are white supremists and keep Nazi propaganda in 
> your home (like the dagger with the swastika on the handle), while 
> your Jewish son (G*****) was being forced to stay in that same home;
> - that you knew that Kris was hiding the stolen AR-15 in your home but 
> did nothing about it until the Glendale police arrested him and 
> executed a search warrant on the home, in the presense of your child;
> - that you have contacted people that might know me (e.g. the person 
> you thought was my father, and my rabbi) and told them false 
> statements to try to turn them against me;
> - that G***** still doesn't want to be with you and wants to return 
> to me, but you don't care because you believe it's not fair to YOU.
> Since you've decided to stop all communication around the time your 
> web site was set up and all your emails to me have been made public, 
> I'm BCC'ing this message to all of the recipients that may be 
> associated with you.
> To all the parties in the BCC list: if you do not wish to receive 
> these messages, take it up with:
> Desiree Yvonne Capuano (nee Tomlin)
> Mobile: 480-455-2086
> Home: 480-361-1650
> email:,
> 13820 S. 44th Street, #1244
> Phoenix, AZ  85044
> Good day, Desiree.
> -----
> Regards,
> Domain Name Abuse
> GoDaddy
> Hotline 480-624-2505
> ARID 1030
> ------------------------------------------------------------------------
> *
> If you need further assistance with this matter, please reply to this 
> email and reference [Incident ID: 23554271].
> Thanks,
> Domain Name Abuse Department
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